In the United States, January is the most active month for divorce filings. Many divorce lawyers, law professionals, and experts even call it, Divorce Month because of the increase in the number of people who start their divorce process in the month of January. Why such a big spike in divorces filed in January? Because often during the holidays, one…
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This post is not me saying “I have no empathy for single moms”… actually, quite the opposite! I hope to encourage others, including fellow Christians and divorced women, to have loving compassion and empathy for all single mothers (the beaten-down traveler) and love them like yourself. Do you know the Parable of the Good Samaritan? The story Jesus told the…
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If living with a narcissist (or someone with a personality disorder) is not hard enough… then the holidays come around every year and things only get much, much worse. After a couple of years, you may have started to see the pattern. The pattern is everything needs to be about the narcissist, who thrives at being the center of attention…
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Individual counseling can be a powerful healing tool to process through healing after abuse, adultery, and a divorce. In most instances, divorced women gain life-changing feedback, suggestions about how to move forward, knowledge about healthy boundaries, and a new perspective that they may not have ever thought of. But sadly, for many divorcing women, counseling is just not enough! They…
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Living with and being married to a narcissist can be impossible. Healing after divorcing a narcissist is almost as difficult. But there is hope! Hope for the future free from oppression and entanglement. The relationship with the narcissist probably sucked the entire life out of you. Your life became his, an extension of him, and now you have to recreate…
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For many divorcing women, it’s extra stressful to think about getting a job outside the home after being a stay-at-home wife and mother for so many years. And honestly, when you’ve given up your life for your family for over a decade (or two), the thought of now having to start all over… feels downright unfair! “The general belief that…
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Women often ask, when will the emotional roller coaster stop? I feel like I should be farther along in my healing from the abuse. Dealing with another hostile person seems to bring back all those victim feelings. And I just don’t know how to feel stronger or thrive. Having feelings months and even years after abuse or divorce is very…
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