These are the common questions I get asked via email on a daily basis!!
So before contacting me read on…
1. I’m a man, can you please write for everyone instead of just for women?
No, I’m not sexist and I don’t hate men. The men in my life who know me personally, understand what I’m doing for women – I privately coach women. I am a woman (obviously) who has experienced divorce from a women’s perspective. That’s mainly what I share, my experience, my life, my advice, and my story. You are welcome to read anything that has already been written on this website, but you might not 100% relate because you’re not a woman.
If I were writing for and coaching “working moms” or “stay-at-home/homeschool moms” (which I did for many years) would you expect me to include dads too? Probably not! I never heard I was sexist or uncaring when I was writing just for homeschool “moms” – even homeschool dads just asked for help to start their own blog. Also, I would never ask a man to stop writing for just men on his website (see many below)!! So why ask me?
Furthermore, men, if you sign up for my newsletter emails, you will probably be removed and deleted. If you want to be mad and blame someone, blame the men who email me weekly, hostile emails calling me names (when I’ve said or done nothing to them) or the men, out looking for single women on the internet. Those disrespectful men are making it worse for the few kind men out there looking for healing. Hard to know who doesn’t have wrong motives anymore and I don’t have time to try to figure it out.
Thanks for your understanding!
2. Do you have any suggested websites for men who are going through a divorce?
Sure, there are many! Just do a search. And here are some that I know of…
Divorce Force (started by 2 men)
Divorced Guy Grinning
The Divorce Men’s Network
Divorce Care (started by a man)
Single Matters (started by a woman but for both sexes)
Daddy Got Custody
Kennedy Bell (Author of the Book, House of Straw)
3. I’ve added my address to your signup form but I haven’t received any confirmation email. Am I signed up?
Always check your “Spam,” “Junk” and “Promotions” folders as emails like mine end up there. Also, read this for how to whitelist an email address or a domain (JenGrice.com) on many email service providers. This helps to make sure you get these emails that you want.
Sadly, I cannot manually add anyone to my list, per privacy laws. You have to go through the steps in order to sign up. These steps help us to know you want to receive emails and it keeps spammers/bots from signing up to this list too.
If you’re still having trouble after a few tries, try a different email address (a personal email is preferred) after you’ve whitelisted my domain (see above). Often it’s a firewall created by the company you work for to keep you from engaging in something other than work emails. 🙂
4. Do I have permission to divorce? What do you mean by “unwanted divorce”?
5. What if I wanted my divorce? Do you write for and coach women who divorced their husband?
I write for, create videos for, and coach women who are “divorcing” or divorced after abuse (including married to a narcissist), addiction, abandonment, and/or adultery (which is also abuse). These are the main topics that I speak about and share my wisdom in. This may mean the husband filed for divorce, leaving her picking up the pieces, or the wife filed to escape their dysfunction and destructive marriage! Either way, I consider that an “unwanted divorce.”
If you divorced your husband just because he wasn’t good enough, or you were the cheater, (meaning YOU wanted out) you might not fit into this community. But you are not unwelcomed here!! Divorce is still divorce, no matter how it happened. You have to learn how to survive and thrive. And in order to get emotionally healthy after, you have to grieve the loss and learn from the past… to have a better future. We’re all learning and growing together. I don’t ask why you’re here… just that you’re not here to cause problems for the rest of us. Thanks!
6. I have a question about your printable toolkits.
There are tabs on the product pages. There is a FAQs tab there as well that will probably answer most of your questions about the printables. The tabs are right under the pictures – gray-colored – next to the “Description” tab.
7. I have a question about your coaching/mentoring.
First, no, I am sorry I cannot take any medical insurance. Any other questions about coaching can be found on the product pages (gray tabs) in the website shop or on my Terms & Conditions page (scroll down).
I only coach English speaking women who are contemplating, divorcing or divorced, not men and not someone interested in learning how to blog, run a website, or minister to ladies about abuse and divorce. But I have created a page with my blogging advice if that helps.
Lastly, please if you’re asking me to call you, you’ll need to purchase a consult first (women only). And a little advice, don’t share your phone number with just anyone on the internet. 😉 For all other questions, contact me through that page. Thank you!
8. How did you come up with the wisdom that you can divorce and even remarry after divorce, after reading the Bible? Please share with me all that you’ve read, studied, and learned. (Yes, this was asked!)
Gosh, do you have six years… or maybe twenty-plus? I’ve been reading and studying the Bible since I was 22 years old. Even before that, I had a yearning to know more about Jesus. I’ve taken university-level Old Testament and New Testament courses of study, plus my own daily study, so I’ve done the work.
If you’d like to know more, I also do consulting for pastors, attorneys, and other educators/advocates. Just send me an email, letting me know what you need, and I’ll tell you what I can do to help and send you an invoice. 🙂