You don’t know what healthy looks like anymore.
Your view of emotional health has been distorted by a psychological abuser.
You’re paralyzed with fear of rocking any boats.
You have no idea how to say, “No” without guilt and shame…
And although you’ve read all of the boundaries books, you don’t know how to apply them to your situation.
What if you had access to someone who had learned how to not only apply healthy boundaries but to teach them to others?
What if you had a sounding board and listening ear to your unique issues… to help you learn and grow through them?
Well, you do!
I am now offering one-on-one divorce mentoring and boundary coaching to help you reclaim your peace after divorce.
I believe boundaries have helped me reclaim my life… they can help you too! Boundaries are actually created by God so I promise you, they are not a bad thing.
The Value of Coaching.
- Learn to decipher between healthy and unhealthy boundaries.
- Learn how to set boundaries with those who do not respect you.
- Learn to create and set your personal limits, so you feel peaceful.
- Learn how to say, “No” without apologizing or feeling guilty.
- Learn how to be KIND instead of “sweet” or “nice” (neither of which are fruits).
- Gain strength as you exercise that muscle and put actions behind your words.
To acquire wisdom is to love yourself; people who cherish understanding will prosper. – Proverbs 19:8 NLT
I have been in the trenches with many other women who have struggled to leave an abusive marriage, struggled in their healing, and with relationships (including “co-parenting”) during separation and divorce. I have found the key to that healing… is learning healthy boundaries.
I’m here to share this wisdom about boundaries to facilitate restoration in the lives of women. Like a doula for abuse and divorce recovery. I am just a “woman who serves”… other women. I help them to grow and learn to be healthy after divorce. I want to empower you in your journey to reclaim your life after divorce.
Set up a “getting you know you session” to see if I’m the right Christian Divorce Mentor for you.
I’m thankful to Jen for her understanding and experience. She made me feel stronger knowing I wasn’t alone in what I had gone through. She helped me at a very low point in my life. Realizing you’re in a destructive Christian marriage is devastating, and knowing someone who has lived it is vital to healing.” – Jennifer
I didn’t know what I needed. I didn’t know where to look or where to turn. Jen was there for me. She listens, prays and encourages me without judgement, only love. She speaks truth from experience and her heart. I know I’m not alone. I know she is a safe place for me to share my hurts. And I know that I can make it, because she has. She has been my rock and a light in the darkest time of my life. I’m blessed having her in my corner.” – LaToya
I believe every Christian woman can make the right decisions towards healing, restoration, and peace, with just a little guidance. I’d love to give you a hand.
What you can expect from me.
- One-on-one Skype or phone coaching time.
- Step-by-step instruction in identifying boundary problems.
- Instruction on how to apply boundaries.
- Boundary strengthening exercises to build that weak muscle.
- Praying for you and with you.
I am not a replacement for licensed therapy or your local domestic violence shelter, for safety. I am just someone who has been right where you are. I’ve studied the subjects of psychological abuse, recovery, boundaries, and healing, intensely. I still continue to educate myself on these topics. I believe growing and learning never ends.
If you have any questions or want to discuss other coaching options, please feel free to contact me.
Coaching terms and conditions can be found HERE.